Of course part of the lack of celebrating might be that there is no pride month here. There was supposedly a pride celebration in Bangkok back in April but that doesn't do me any good now. Part of that is also because I'm not really sure what the Thai people's thoughts are towards the LGBTQ+ community. Same sex marriage is not legal in this country but at least being gay isn't a crime anymore. There are several articles that claim Thailand to be "LGBTQ+ Friendly" but then specifically mention Bangkok and their tourism. I don't think the same openness is going to be seen 10 hours away in a more conservative area of the country. The government is moving towards recognizing civil unions between same-sex partners but that's only half the battle. The people need to accept the LGBTQ+ community and unfortunately they are still being disowned, fired, and denied basic rights.
I know that equality is still a global battle but coming to Southeast Asia has opened my eyes to what we have back home in the states. Is it perfect? Nope, but I can openly walk down the street holding my girlfriend's hand. I've been out for just over two years and I feel like I've had to take a step back into the closet just to be safe. It took me long enough to accept myself and living in a country where I can't fully be myself is disheartening.
So...happy pride.
A photo of us sporting our Lanesboro Sesquicentennial tees!
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